Margaret Arnold • October 11, 2025
Stories in Small Moments: Essays and Simple Living
Two books of essays

After nearly 30 blog posts about simple living, I continue to find enjoyment in downsizing and being intentional. This summer reinforced my commitment to simplicity in two ways: first, letting things move on—including my 55-year collection of Laura Ingalls Wilder books to my son's fiancée, a teacher, with whom I discovered a shared love of the series; and secondly, using groceries wisely, experimenting with what's on hand and increasing freezing techniques rather than waste (more on that later).


This intentional approach extends to reading, one of life's simplest pleasures. Some of my best memories and connections to people are through reading. Laura Ingalls Wilder's books read in the early 1970s remind me of home upstairs in the girls’ “dormitory” bedroom. The Sound of Music on a family road trip in a GMC motorhome in 1976 gave me moments of escape alongside five siblings. Kate DiCamillo, Gary Paulsen and the Harry Potter series remind me of my children as emerging readers and their well-worn books. Dancing at the Rascal Fair by Ivan Doig and Angle of Repose by Wallace Stegner connect me to an early book club of serious readers and friends I still cherish today.


This intentional approach extends to reading ...

Now, as busy life seasons come and go, I've discovered essay collections and short story anthologies. Their bite-sized format fits into hectic schedules, and remarkably the books often arrive as gifts from friends who somehow know exactly what I need and when I need it! Two favorites stand out.

  • Thoughts of Home: Reflections on Families, Houses, and Homeland is an anthology of 44 essays that's funny, engaging, and beautifully written. A college friend gifted it to me — someone whose homes I've loved for nearly 40 years, from a tiny one-bedroom apartment in our late twenties, to the beautiful home where we now gather each Christmas season. She had researched and collected inspiration (folders of magazine clippings) for years before creating her own space, and this book is a reflection of her.


  • World of Wonders: In Praise of Fireflies, Whale Sharks and Other Astonishments by Aimee Nezhukumatathil recently arrived with a note: "Margaret, this is a favorite of mine. Please feel free to gift it—I know you're committed to simplicity, which I admire." Once again, a dear nature-loving friend knew exactly what I needed: the author's personal stories woven through her connection to nature's wonders, from fireflies to narwhals.


These books have become a favorite way to read. They let me read in small moments and, in turn, set them down knowing a story is complete. I look forward to passing them along in the future to others for their busy life seasons.


P.S. On Nov. 2, 2024, I launched The Silver Thread website and wrote about Ann Patchett's story in The New Yorker, "How to Practice," as a source of inspiration. That same story appears in her book These Precious Days: Essays (2021). During Covid, Patchett spent her time writing and compiling these essays so she could finish the collection. In an interview with The New York Times, she said: "So if I write an essay, it's almost like sending up a flare saying: 'I'm still here, I'm still alive.'" It seems essays sustain both readers and writers alike.


P.S.S. Comparing the Laura Ingalls Wilder editions here's a fun fact: My 1971 edition of the collection was 95 cents a book. My future daughter-in-law's 2004 edition was $9 a book. The picture shows my well-traveled collection stacked next to and on top of hers.


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Maple syrup bottles on the counter with holiday decor.
By Margaret Arnold January 1, 2026
As I go about my Silverish Simplicity days, I've started mentally categorizing my activities and intentions. Is this a lightbulb moment? Is this extreme? Is this an add-on to an existing idea? Since this is the time of year to look back while looking ahead, I'm sharing a few ideas in the categories below with the warning, dear readers, that they aren't for everyone—but no doubt there is wisdom and a challenge in each of them. Epiphanies After more than five years of downsizing and living more simply, I continue to have epiphanies as I go about my day. They come suddenly and are ideas I can't wait to try. Most challenge me to reduce, reuse, or repurpose and lean towards quality. One recent example: splitting and gifting a gallon of Saint John's Abbey Maple Syrup (one of 24 gallons bottled last season) won in a silent auction. With handmade tags added to glass bottles I had been collecting, this small-batch, limited production liquid gold became perfect gifts for my children (all who have visited the sugar shack) and a few hostesses. Extremes Some things I do to help the environment or save money would make my own family roll their eyes. Toilet paper, for instance. I save dryer lint in empty toilet paper rolls to create fire starters for outdoor bonfires. Saving dryer lint was a trick I learned from a friend way before I was Silverish Simplicity. I added the empty toilet paper roll for a more contained starter (and to keep the lint out of sight). An extra: I challenge myself to use only three perforated squares rather than grabbing half the roll. The cost savings and septic system benefits are real. I won’t go into any greater detail! ... I continue to have epiphanies as i go about my day ...
Christmas tree with white lights in front of a window, indoors.
By Margaret Arnold December 6, 2025
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