Resources from the The Silver Thread

An Earth Day Project to Last a Decade

By Margaret Arnold • April 26, 2025

Earth Day has significant meaning for me. Beyond falling during my wedding anniversary week (4.23), this global day has involved cleaning ditches with my children and outdoor spring projects. It's ideal for honoring Earth's wonders as nature awakens in Minnesota. For a third year, my gift to Earth is a forest management project first shared last year on LinkedIn . My husband and I have tackled buckthorn eradication , transforming our woods to reveal 300-year-old oaks, black cherry, cedar trees and the land's natural contour. While I attempt to embrace simplicity, this conservation project isn't simple! Eradicating this invasive shrub (and larger old trees) from our forest will take a decade or more. It demands physical work and resources, but the rewards extend beyond restoring native habitats in my corner of the world. my gift to the earth is a forest management project ...

Miles, Enduring Friendships and Loose Change

By Margaret Arnold • April 13, 2025

Last Sunday, three friends and I celebrated spring birthdays with a long walk and brunch. Though still brisk walkers as former "runner girls," we paused to appreciate the beautiful spring morning as we wound through streets, a wooded trail with frozen ground, and finally a shared-use path. Greeting passing runners reminded me of my younger self, but I've grown content with my natural walking habit. Four years ago, I retired from decades of running for a consistent walking routine. I no longer feel compelled to justify my walking routine against running and have fully embraced this new habit and discovered unexpected treasures beyond the well-known health benefits. EACH WALK OFFERS BRILLANT SUNRISES, UNIQUE CLOUD FORMATIONS, CHATTERING BIRDSONGS ...

Warranty Wisdom: A Mother’s Lesson

By Margaret Arnold • March 30, 2025

While I'm not an expert on warranties, I am the daughter of a mother who took advantage of them for small home products. With three daughters in the house, she purchased a few blow dryers especially when her three teenagers cared enough to wake up early and style our hair. I remember our mother packaging up a non-operating Conair blow dryer and shipping it to take advantage of the product warranty at the time (today it’s three years). Decades before the internet, there is no doubt she kept the product literature to reference the important warranty and shipping information. In her last months of life, she once instructed me to look up warranty and replacement information on her favorite Ottlite sewing lamp she had in her office that wasn’t working. She loved this lamp and was determined to have it in use again. I remember lovely conversations with the customer service person explaining the issue, what we should do next and even a friendly follow-up email! In that spirit, and with the ease of the internet, I have taken advantage of a few product warranties. My research and approach are based on my love of the product itself and doing a quick cost-benefit analysis, including product quality, time and shipping costs. However, I have found the first step is to create a simple warranty tracking system for my favorite products – whether through browser bookmarks, email folders or paper files – just as I’m sure our mother did with her product literature as there wasn’t a piece of paper she won’t hold on to “just in case.” "A Customer is never out of warranty, even if his product is." Seth Godin

A Northface puffer jacket with patches

Repairing Gear is Cool (even for a boomer)

By Margaret Arnold • March 22, 2025

On a downhill ski trip this winter, I skied with three fellow boomers. One of the skiers was sporting the same lightweight puffer jacket I’ve worn and treasured for years. As we compared notes, we realized all three of us had the exact jacke t (color, style) circa early 2000s. We laughed about our shared attachment to our well-worn piece, each telling stories on why we wear the jacket today – a warm layer with a shell, a light work jacket, etc. While all of our trusty puffers had seen better days (a total of 70 years of use or more), we weren’t giving up on them. Back at home, I sent these women a picture of my own jacket with it's repairs. Using patches, I’ve given my puffer a new life and a new look – and have created a few stares. The shapes, representing the outdoors, perfectly adhere to the tears to prevent the jacket from further disrepair. ... outdoor enthusiasts were keeping, repairing, and proudly wearing their well-worn gear ...

Cookie baking on parchment paper

Baggies to Batch Cooking: One Mom's Simple Living Secrets

By Margaret Arnold • March 8, 2025

While texting back and forth about The Silver Thread , I invited my friend Rita Meyer to write a guest post. Rita and I met when our children were classmates at Saint John's Preparatory School, but I knew of her life before then through her monthly column in our Catholic newspaper. Her approachable writing about home life, daily running routine, and adventurous spirit had always resonated with me. Before we met, I also learned about Rita and her husband Marv's impressive feat of hiking the entire Appalachian Trail. After we became friends, I watched in admiration as their family of six embarked on a summer adventure, living in a motorhome in Alaska from the end of one school year to the start of the next. Leaving behind her home, gardens, and routine to capture precious time with her family exemplified living intentionally and simply. Rita is a baker and cook extraordinaire for family, fundraisers, and events, a dedicated volunteer, and a kindred spirit. I'm delighted to share her perspective with you today. Dear Silver Thread Readers, I can so relate to trying to live a simpler life. A more sustainable life. A life of less stuff and more peace. Margaret has come to embrace what her mother taught by both word and action. I think our moms could have been besties, such similar values. The more I read Margaret’s posts, the more I realize that I too have adopted a lot of my Mom’s ways and I am proud of this simpler lifestyle. Oh sure, my kids sometimes get on my case for reusing Baggies (for lunch pail packing, they definitely can be used more than once depending on the contents) or Ziplocks (didn’t know about the cool-looking wooden stand Margaret featured last week; I just put mine over water bottles sitting on the countertop) or even perfectly good containers (I buy the Quaker Oats at Sam’s Club and then pour it from the bags into the saved round containers from earlier days). Know what though? I think my kids get it and are replicating what they have seen and heard as they start flying out of the coop. Our moms could have been besties ...

Vintage Ironite mangle iron

From Mangle Irons to Modern Methods: Embracing Sustainable Laundry Practices

By Margaret Arnold • March 1, 2025

Growing up as part of a large family meant heaps of laundry. As the daughter of a home economist (now called family and consumer sciences), our home often felt like a laboratory. While some of our mother’s laundry practices remain with me today, others no longer suit modern lifestyle. After doing laundry for my family of six — before becoming an empty nester seven years ago — I've developed sustainable practices that extend the life of fewer, high-quality clothing items. Patric Richardson , Minnesota-based author of Laundry Love and House Love and host of The Laundry Guy TV show, advocates investing in quality essentials year-round and adding a few seasonal pieces instead of fast fashion. He notes: “If you really love your garments, both classic and trendy, you’ll be more motivated to take care of them and make them last. In sum, you’ll be buying both more thoughtfully and less.” I've learned ... laundry is more than just cleaning clothes — it’s about sustainability, simplifying life ...

Styled for Simplicity: A Closet Edit to Let Go

By Margaret Arnold • February 22, 2025

Downsizing our family home in 2021 meant "editing" my wardrobe for a year shuffling between temporary housing, an overcrowded office, and storage space. To protect and move my wardrobe, I invested in quality storage bags that I still use today — just fewer of them! Our new closet is one-third the size of our previous one. Despite initial downsizing, I still had work to do after leaving a long career, adapting to lifestyle changes, and holding onto special pieces too long. The final step in organizing my closet was a virtual styling session with my niece Krysta, a professional stylist ( Styled x Krysta ). Thanks to Krysta my closet contains only items I truly want to keep. This Closet editing journey taught me there's often more to let go ...

A Sustainable Practice Full of Memories

By Margaret Arnold • February 15, 2025

I have written about my mother’s everyday routines – quiet, small practices, some taught and some untaught. My father, a physician, had grand, energetic routines centered around gardening, travel and 35mm photography. I particularly remember his gardening this time of year as he waited for spring to arrive. His gardening was prolific, with multiple flower and vegetable gardens at his different properties. For decades, until his early 90s, he planned more gardens, more bulbs to plant, more supplies to get and more ornamental and water features to place. A master gardener, his unceasing drive to create colorful views and conduct gardening tours for friends and family (and a reason to have a party) was unmatched. He made plans this time of year inspired by travels and by attending the spring Bachman’s Flower Show . While his gardening wasn’t simple, a greenhouse he added at our family home was remarkably sustainable – saving and protecting plants year after year instead of replacing them. In a picture recently used for my younger sister’s milestone birthday, the greenhouse setting (see pictures below) perfectly captures those memories: fall crisp nights digging up plants, the humid greenhouse air with geranium scent, and the anxiety of freeze alarms during our parents’ travels. ... a greenhouse ... was remarkably sustainable ...

Humble Helpers: Six Kitchen Tools for Simple Living

By Margaret Arnold • February 8, 2025

At a recent social event, I met a woman who helps families downsize their parents' homes. We clicked instantly over our shared passion for simple living. Our brief conversation confirmed what we both knew: the kitchen is where simple living often begins — eliminating duplicate storage containers and saying no to large gadgets because of space, etc. That conversation made me reflect on my own kitchen essentials – the simple tools that I use every day. I’ve discovered that humble little tools, not fancy hard-to-store gadgets, are the extraordinary helpers for simple, sustainable living. Many were inspired by, or came from, family and friends, and I treasure them, not only because of their purpose, but their small size and mighty reuse. The kitchen is where simple living begins ...

Shiny winter sunset with sun reflection

Why Silverish Simplicity?

By Margaret Arnold • January 25, 2025

As I mark my 10th blog post, I'm grateful for the inspiration behind launching this blog. Three years into my simplicity journey, I now truly "see,” "feel,” and "celebrate" what less means. I’ve been asked why “Silverish?” The term "Silverish" brightly captures my approach. The three letters "ish" explain that my simplicity is roughly parallel to my life stage - similar to the silver-like color of my hair and favorite jewelry, but not perfectly defined. Silverish allows me to embrace light and imperfection. Frankly, this lifestyle isn't for everyone. While of late I've read more counterpoint-to-minimalism articles, I know this approach works for me. I believe at some point everyone will discover a need for simplification, whether through choice or circumstance like a late-in-life estate sale. And I'm simply enjoying this journey too much to not be part of it. ... everyone will discover a need for simplification ...

Articles
Articles I have read that have influenced a life of simplicty.

How to Practice by Ann Patchett
My Year of No Shopping by Ann Patchett
The True History of Loyalty Programs
What I Learned from My No-Spend Month by Gretchen Rubin
5 Grapefruit Spoon Hacks You Should Know About
20 Incredible Uses for Safety Pins
25 Life Hacks Older People Should Know
An Etiquette Guide to Regifting
12 Balanced Living Ideas for a Great New Year
How to Hang Your Laundry
How to do Laundry Like a European
Grandmacore
10 Ways to Eat Better
My Home is Messy, and I Don’t Feel Bad About It
Blue Mason Jar Storage
How to Declutter Your Kitchen Cabinets
How to Organize a Kitchen When You Downsize
How I Learned to Fall in Love With a Smaller Kitchen
Books
Books I have read that have influenced a live of simplicity and were found at my local library.

Minimalism

Minimalism by Ben Smith
Sustainable Minimalism: Embrace Zero Waste, Build Sustainability Habits That Last, and Become a Minimalist without Sacrificing the Planet
Goodbye Things by Fumio Sasaki
The Minimalist Home by Joshua Becker
Swedish Death Cleaning by Linnea Gustafsson
The More of Less by Joshua Becker
New Minimalism by Kyle Louisa Quilici
Simply Sustainable by Lily Cameron

Zero-Waste

101 Ways to Go Zero Waste by Kathryn Kellogg
Zero Waste Home by Bea Johnson
The (Almost) Zero-Waste Guide: 100+ Tips for Reducing Your Waste Without Changing Your Life by Melanie Mannarino
The Zero-Waste Lifestyle: Live Well by Throwing Away Less by Amy Korst
Don’t be Trashy: A Practical Guide to Living with Less Waste and More Joy by Tara McKenna
Decluttering
CatalogChoice
The New York Times (Smarter Living)
PC Magazine How To
Holidays
Pass the Present Printable
The Minimalist Gift-Giving Trend that Will Make Your Holiday Season More Meaningful (and Less Wasteful)
MPR Holiday
Classic FM
Swedish Log Candles
Places
Saint John's Abbey Stewardship
Stift Melk
Podcasts & Videos
Keep the Memories: Lose the Stuff on Senior Authority
Diane in Denmark
The Power of Decluttering
Downsizing Your Life & Home by Anne Nouri
Sustainable Minimalist by Stephanie Seferian
The Maximized Minimalist by Katy Wells
Recipes
Caramel-Crowned Pumpkin Squares
Repurposing
Reusing Copy Paper
Tools & Things
Ceramic Knife
Cloth, Insulated Tortilla Warmer
Decorative Compost Bin
Elegant Wood Bag Dryer for Plastic Bags
Gina B Designs
Silicone Bowl Covers
Soak Modern Laundry Care
The Spatty
Toothpaste Squeezer Tube Roller