Starting a blog feels like the opposite of simple. At any moment, I could talk myself out of it — it feels risky, so "not me." But each day, I find myself wanting to share thoughts, both old and new, about living a simple life. Rather than picking up the phone to share my ideas and new practices with friends and family who may have no interest in my thoughts and ideas, I’ve decided to take a risk and write them down in a new personal blog, The Silver Thread.
My inspiration comes, in part, from my mother and her daily practices I observed (and were no doubt passed down to her), my own learnings that have now become habits, and a deeper interest in simplicity by exploring literature and other content. One of those inspirations was the Ann Patchett's article and book and the charming book "The Gentle Art of Swedish Death Cleaning: How to Free Yourself and Your Family from a Lifetime of Clutter" by Margareta Magnusson.
The weather that day
was described as light
and variable
In May 2020, a few months into the pandemic, I sent a note to colleagues letting them know I was stepping away from my consulting work (only to return twice more 😊) to help and be a caregiver for family, downsize our family home and move into a smaller home, and see a few volunteer projects through. The weather that day was described as "light and variable" which inspired the start of creating a light and variable lifestyle. Like the weather, I could imagine "it" immediately, but I just needed to start — like this blog.
What I didn’t know was that practicing a simpler life could truly be light and variable. Light, meaning you recognize it when you "feel" it and are attracted to return to it often — less belongings, less waste, less cost, and more time for meaningful connections. Variable, defined as lightening your load to allow for flexibility, change, and growth. Light and variable also describe the calm and unpredictably of working towards, achieving and returning to a simpler lifestyle.
Five top facts to know about my light and variable lifestyle that I’ll highlight and write about in future issues of The Silver Thread:
- Space is at the center of the lifestyle.
- Preparation and routine ensures success.
- Cleaning and the right tools are part of the process.
- Family legacy, health and moments are a priority.
- Nature and cool things can inspire.
I’ve found that a life that is more light and variable has brought unexpected fun and challenge. It’s a practice I continue to refine, and one you may want to explore, too.
Silverish Simplicity Links
You can find any books I suggest at your local library
- How to Practice by Ann Patchett
- The Gentle Art of Swedish Death Cleaning by Margareta Magnusson
- Keep the Memories: Lose the Stuff on Senior Authority


