Margaret Arnold • December 21, 2024
Hush, No Rush: Slowing Our Pace

While listening to a podcast at the beginning of the this year's Advent and Christmas season, I heard the phrase “Hush, No Rush.”  The message arrived just in time to make the perfect goal of holiday simplicity. Despite entertaining, attending parties and running errands (mostly groceries), I found ways to embrace this mantra this holiday season.


Living in a small rural area naturally lends itself to a slower pace, with fewer retail and entertainment distractions. Still, I intentionally looked at our home and calendar for small changes but keeping the festive and fun spirit. 


... A merry and silverish christmas!

For the past three Christmas seasons, I’ve taken a more deliberate simplistic approach, and this year was no different. Here are ways I have found a “Hush, No Rush” mindset during this holiday season.


  • Reduce holiday décor and bring in natural greens – Frequently advocated by minimalist experts, this practice has become an annual goal. I have reduced my holiday décor to only a few boxes, and will evaluate them again in a few weeks when I put them away. While some of the artificial décor went out the door, I brought in more foraged greens from my woods.
  • Choose simple entertainment for gatherings – This year, I hosted a holiday/retirement get together with a small friend group. I asked my friends to bring a childhood Christmas photo of themselves (under the age of six). Following my own rule, I shared one picture. But my friends went through their historic photos or printed them and brought dozens of pictures. We spent the evening laughing and marveling at our younger selves and our families.
  • Walk whenever possible – A regular walker, I combined exercise with errands – visiting the library (so festive during the holidays!), the bank and dropping off holiday cheer for friends. Beyond exercise, there is no better way to find natural quiet and slow life’s pace.
  • Enjoy calming holiday music – Our public radio station has a beautiful holiday stream. And years ago, my sister introduced me to UK's Classic FM years ago, and this year to the popular classical music new channel  “Classic FM Calm” (thanks, sister number one!)  Between this and Minnesota Public Radio’s “Holiday” 24-hour streaming option, there is calm music around to slow the pace while enjoying the holidays.
  • Embrace a new tradition – A favorite holiday party to raise money for an outdoor arboretum introduced me to Swedish Log Candles. Every few years, we celebrate the holidays or the Winter Solstice by creating Swedish Log Candles. This year will be one of those years. Bringing us outside, the simple, self-contained fire creates a beautiful contrast on one of the longest nights of the year.


As I write this a few days before posting, our first winter snowstorm has arrived – nature’s way of slowing our pace. The holiday errands are complete, chores nearly finished, and family is arriving to celebrate Christmas on Winter Solstice weekend. A perfect ending to a “Hush, No Rush” season. Merry and Silverish Christmas!

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By Margaret Arnold January 1, 2026
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